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About Me

What's a 30-year-old Millenial to do when She begins writing again after a 2-year break? Blog about Self Awareness, of course! 

This is my little space on the internet to write about all the things that happen to me as I navigate Adulting. 

Why should you read my blog? 

If you like being able to say, "Yup, I relate!" then you'll like it here. MY goal is to make anyone who reads this feel less alone in this world. I write primarily about living with Chronic illnesses whilst being a Mother and Business Owner. I post photos on my Instagram ( check out the My Photography tag on the home page or just click here. ) 

Why Oreos and Gin?

Those two items belong in my Adulting First Aid kit.  I've always loved Oreos ever since I was little & I enjoy a glass or two.
Of Gin from my modest collection. 

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